“Watch what God does, and then you do it, like children who learn proper behaviour from their parents. Mostly what God does is love you.” Ephesians 5:1-2 The Message

Well the schools have closed, the long hot British summer is here (or not) and for those of us who have the care of children over the next few weeks, I’ve found some words of wisdom. The following ‘Beatitudes for Parents’ were written 45 years ago by Marion E Kinnerman when her daughters were raising her six grandchildren. They’re still spot on!

Blessed are those parents who make their peace with spilled milk and with mud, for of such is the kingdom of childhood.
Blessed is the parent who engages not in the comparison of his child with others, for precious unto each is the rhythm of his own growth.
Blessed are the fathers and mothers who have learned laughter, for it is the music of the child’s world.
Blessed and wise are those parents who understand the goodness of time, for they make it not a sword that kills growth but a shield to protect.
Blessed and mature are they who without anger can say "no", for comforting to the child is the security of firm decisions.
Blessed is the gift of consistency, for it is heart’s-ease in childhood.
Blessed are they who accept the awkwardness of growth, for they are aware of the choice between marred furnishings and damaged personalities.
Blessed are the teachable, for knowledge brings understanding, and understanding brings love.
Blessed are the men and women who in the midst of the unpromising mundane, give love, for they bestow the greatest of all gifts to each other, to their children, and—in an ever-widening circle—to their fellow men.

Enjoy the summer. Enjoy those who you will be caring for.

Blessings Neil.